What is the Coital Alignment Technique?

Roughly two thirds of women cannot orgasm for vaginal stimulation alone. Coital alignment can fix that, and can make sex more enjoyable for both parties.

Coital alignment is a set of sex techniques that make sex more stimulating for women. Men tend to be positioned on top, with their pelvis rubbing against the woman’s pelvis, allowing for clitoral stimulation.

So How do You do it?

To get the ultimate coital alignment, the woman should put a pillow or wedge underneath her hips and lower back so that the pelvis area is more accessible. At this point, climb on top of her in missionary position and gently slide your penis inside her.

After your penis is as deep as it can be, shift yourself up so that your pelvises are directly parallel each other. Your chest should be at her shoulders, rather than face to face, which allows for your penis shaft to grind against her clitoris and her vulva, which is pleasurable for her.

Lower your body down onto hers, and rest on your elbows so you aren’t putting all your weight on her, but instead are putting pressure on her pelvis. You won’t have great movement abilities in this position, but you’ll know it’s working when she starts holding on tighter and pulling you closer.

If you want to take coital alignment to the next level, try grinding against her. Visualize her clitoris underneath your pelvis and put pressure in that area. Resist the temptation to move in and out, and instead allow your penis to rest inside her.

Taking it to the Next Level

If you want to take your coital alignment to the next level, try investing in a sex pillow instead of using a regular sleeping pillow. This is specifically angled at 45 degrees for optimal G Spot and clitoral stimulation.

You can also play with sensations in the erogenous zones, which include the ears, scalp, and inner arm. Running your fingers or kissing along these areas can increase sensual stimulation, which leads to a more intense orgasm for your partner.

If you want to try a different version of coital alignment, go for a new position! Coital alignment is all about clitoral stimulation, so it can be applied to any position in which the clitoris is accessible to either partner, or easy to grind on.

A few fan favorites include: reverse cowgirl, reclining chiller, and sitting on a pillow top. These positions are all great to try out with coital alignment, because they are easy to do while still being exciting for both partners.


If you’re looking for a new way to increase pleasure for your female partner, look no further. The coital alignment technique makes it easy to pleasure her, and is an exciting new technique that isn’t known by all. So what are you waiting for? Go try it now!